By Victor C.
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.
Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who struggled with girls, that’s me.
I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and then I’d write down my response.
But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot. In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?
Here we go:
Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!
My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning you open a world of possibilities.
Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh… It’s the way to true love…”
That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately.
I’ve done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.
Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.
That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends, she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation. Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.
If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make it more difficult for you to approach her.
My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest, tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes. Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as before.
Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.
But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the door to your success with any girl.
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How to Flirt With Women – Surprise HER and Make Her YOUR GirlBy Chris Tyler
Have you ever watched one of your buddies try and flirt with a woman and you could see from a mile away exactly what move he was going to try next? Did you ever listen to one of your buddies try to drop a line on a girl and you knew exactly what he was going to say before he even said it? Well, you know what? Most of the time, the woman knows this and sees this just like you.
If you want to be able to really impress a girl with your flirting techniques you have to be able to surprise her now and again. If you take all of the suspense and surprise out of it by using techniques and routines that she already has heard a million times before, you are not going to exactly WOW her, now are you?
Here are some tips on how to flirt with women and take her by SURPRISE:
1. Be a bit devilish when you talk to her.
Most guys are natural born suck ups when they talk to women. They are full of compliments and even when they try to be a little bit bad, they are really just sucking up still and the woman knows this. You have to be a bit more devilish and cheeky when you are talking to a woman. You want to see her mouth open with surprise (in a good way) at the things that you have to say to her.
2. Get her out on the dance floor.
Most men tend to be shy and awkward about dancing with a woman, especially one that they have just met. Usually either the girl will end up dragging him out there, or his and her friends will kind of egg it on. Just grab her and bring her out to the dance floor, no questions asked. Not only will she like the thrill of it, but when you dance with a woman, you don’t have to say as much to make her start to want you.
3. Be spontaneous whenever you can.
Guys are pretty much creatures of habits and routines. We like to do the same things over and over. Well, if you want to be able to surprise a woman and make her feel like she is totally thrilled when she sees you, you have to become more spontaneous. The traditional dating stuff has been way overdone, and anything outside of the box that you can think of will be a refresher to her.
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By Mark Shih
The Asian male and his dating situation. What is it like? Well, if you’re reading this article I’m fairly sure that yours is non-existent. Polls have shown that Asian men aren’t the first choice for most western females.
Dating websites that can match you with your soul mate can work, until the female sees that you’re Asian. Racist? Maybe. Just scouring the web you’ll come across a wide variety of opinions on this subject. You’ll commonly hear the same things over and over again:
- “It’s because Hollywood films show negative stereotypes of Asians”
- “Asian men seem too shy”
- “We’re educated and successful – why wouldn’t women be interested in us?”
So what is an Asian guy suppose to do? As an Asian man, who at one point was dateless for YEARS… yea, not weeks or months, but YEARS, and who now has a busy social life, let me offer you some of the best advice out there for Asian men:
Admit you need to change: This is where it all starts. Just admit it. You have a dead social life? Well, the only person to blame is yourself. Your current way of thinking hasn’t been getting you anywhere with your dating life, so make a move today.
Stop with the negativity: You want to complain about negative stereotypes in the media? Join a political group. You want to meet more women? Stop complaining about everything. There are a lot “keyboard jockeys” on the Internet who just projects a whining, hide behind the monitor, wimp. These crybabies are a bad influence for any of you guys trying to find themselves and who are AFRAID of women. Stop with the negative and move forward towards the positive.
Find Mentors: Surrounding yourself with individuals who are similar to you and who have been through your world is a priceless source of motivation and knowledge. Because there are too many negative non-believers out there, sometimes the best wake-up call is seeing things for yourself. For those of you looking for the magic pill. This is it.
This powerful foundation will start you off in the right direction.
I’ve been in your shoes and I know that most of you need a constant reminder or a drill sergeant to steer you right. Change is hard and can take a couple of years to finally “get it.”
Don’t let your Asian background be a hindrance. I’ve come to the point where I think that it is an advantage for me to be Asian in the dating world. That’s how I “see it.” There is a small percentage of Asian men who have had no problems with their dating lives. Whether if it’s with a Latina, Caucasian or black woman, these guys just get it.
Fortunately, everything can be learned. But you need to make your first step to begin your journey. Stop hanging out at the Boba Café and take down your online dating profiles. Because this isn’t about women, it’s about building a lifestyle.
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Do You Know How to Flirt With Men – And How Not To?
Do You Know How to Flirt With Men – And How Not To?
How to flirt with men; it is an important skill. However, we need to clarify that just a bit; you probably do not want to flirt with guys in general; that will get you a bad reputation. But when you find that one special guy, do you want to let him get away? Do you want to let him know you are available? Do you want to let him know that you are interested? Then you need to know not how to flirt with men – but how to flirt with just that special one.
So here is the dating advice you need -
1. Smile. Who do you enjoy spending time with – someone who smiles or someone who frowns all the time? Even someone whose face is neutral does not appeal to us or attract us. So learning how to flirt with men includes giving him a gentle smile – But do NOT overdo it.
2. Body language – If both of you are standing in a room and you have your body turned sideways, you body language is saying that you are not available. But if your body is facing him, you are saying welcome. I am available and interested. Male psychology allows a man to read your body language like that. So, do NOT stand with your body positioned sideways or your back turned to him.
3. A gentle touch can help a man fall in love and make him commit. A gentle touch connects us to the person we are touching. So, when speaking with him, at some time when you are making a point, touch his forearm gently and very, very briefly. I know of a lady who does this to me about every 30 seconds and I just want to scream at her to go away. Do NOT touch too often.
4. Kind words. Some women seem to feel that they can attract men by being critical, sarcastic, rude and demanding. If this woman does attract a man, get a proposal and engagement and marriage, one of two things has happened; either she has attracted a man who is unstable and insecure, or she has attracted a gem of a man who loved her IN SPITE of these behaviors.
There you go. 4 very effective tips. Now you know how to flirt with men – and how not to.
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By Peggy McKee
Competition for jobs in medical sales can be fierce. Health care is a fascinating field, and the work environment for medical sales reps is exciting, lucrative, and rewarding for those who want to really make a difference. However, sales interviews are difficult, and interviews for jobs in medical device sales, laboratory sales, biotech sales, imaging sales, or other health care sales are demanding. That means that you’re going to have to work a little harder to set yourself apart from the competition and win the job. If your background and experience are up to snuff, all that’s left is the interview. Here are six things you can do that absolutely will work to make the most of the time you have in your interview to impress the hiring manager and boost your chances of landing the job:
1. Research the company. In other words, do your homework. There’s no excuse for not knowing what the company does, what its current issues are, what its goals are, where its products fit in the marketplace, and who the competition is. Your job is to take in this information and use it to figure out how you can help them reach their goals….and then frame your answers to interview questions accordingly.
2. Know what kinds of questions to expect from a medical sales interview, like “Can you travel?” or, “How will you build your market?” Have answers prepared for tough (but popular) interview questions such as, “What’s your greatest weakness?” (definitely use a real weakness that helps you be a great sales rep–but not perfectionism) or “Why should we hire you?” Especially be ready for behavioral interview questions focused on tough situations you’ve had to deal with, or goals you’ve achieved and how you did it. Quantify your answers whenever possible. Hiring managers want sales reps who know their job is to ring the cash register.
3. Dress appropriately, and watch your body language. Dressing appropriately means dressing conservatively with no flashy jewelry or strong perfume. If you’re not sure about your job interview body language, find a book to study, or research body language online. Try making a video of yourself and get a friend to help you critique it.
4. Create a 30/60/90-day sales plan, which is a short, 1-3 page outline of your first 3 months on the job-how you will get your training, how you will get up to speed on current accounts, how you will bring in new customers, and so on. It’s impressive because it is evidence of how much you want this job, and how hard you’re willing to work, before you even get the job. It shows the hiring manager that you understand the company, and you understand how to be successful in the job. A 30/60/90-day plan helps the hiring manager to see you in the job, which then makes it easier to make the decision to hire you. It also helps you guide the direction of the interview so that you are sure to get your points across, and it turns the interview into a conversation rather than a question-and-answer session.
5. Bring your brag book. A 30/60/90-day plan shows the hiring manager what you will do, but a brag book shows the hiring manager what you have done. It’s the evidence to back up what you say you can do. It should include your sales stats, performance reviews, “good job” notes or emails, resume, certifications, PowerPoint presentations you’ve created, brochures you’ve done, and what types of products or equipment you’ve marketed. A really thick brag book with a few critical things highlighted (that you show the hiring manager) is especially effective.
6. Know how to close the interview. If you’re in sales, you know how to close the sale. A job interview is the same process, except that the product you’re selling is yourself. This is one of the most important sales calls of your life. Don’t leave without asking for the job. Whether you ask for it directly or you use an assumptive close by asking about the next step, it’s important that you uncover any objections the hiring manager might have while you’re right there to answer them.
Being well-prepared for the interview will boost your confidence, present you as a better candidate, and help you smoothly navigate the interview toward getting the job offer.
Peggy McKee has over 15 years of experience in sales, management, and recruiting. She is the CEO of PHC Consulting, a nationally-known medical sales recruiting firm. See her website and blog for more on medical sales at => http://www.phcconsulting.com.
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Flirting, body language “speaking” usually starts with the first contact which is established between two persons is the visual one. Before anyone would say a word, the eyes have already sent a message that can be interpreted in different ways. Thus, when a woman looks deeply into the eyes of men means that is fascinated by him, and more than that, if she will not move her eyes from him, means that for her in that place and at that time, there is not another man for her.
When a woman is keeping her arms crossed on her chest, the gesture may be interpreted in several ways. For women, crossing their arms may look like they are some vulnerable creatures and feel the need to protect themselves. Also, women are resorting to this position to attract attention to their breasts, in this situation arms crossing can receive a sexual meaning.
When a woman is feeling a sense of discomfort in the presence of a person of the opposite sex, will tend to slightly remove her presence, with babies steps maybe but it is definitely noticeable. Crossing legs can also be interpreted as flirting, body language experimentation. As a gesture that betrays nervousness or the desire to cause it. Most people cross their legs in an unconscious gesture, when they feel some nervousness.
Women often play with their own hair and this is also a sign of nervousness. If you catch her doing this gesture you can be sure that you have had some kind of effect to her. When the presence of a man excite a woman beyond measure, she will start to feel her mouth getting dry. Well, if she has began to moisten and bite her lips in your presence, it is clear sign that you interest her. It is a clear sign, a gesture whose significance can not be hidden. It is a clear gesture of flirting, body language “speaking”.
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By AJ Canoy
Among the age brackets that receive the greatest amount of confusing decision making are teens. At this stage of life there could be hundreds of decisions to make that could leave them confused and troubled. In addition, temptations of making the worst decision of their lives are flooding the way at this stage.
One of the most crucial parts of being a teenager is relationships. In this point some parents would say “you are too young for that”, and more often, teens get disappointed on it. Here are some of the most common questions that teen really get confused in answering and we are answering it to the best that we can for you guy.
When exactly should teens start dating?
The answer is, THERE IS NO BEST AGE FOR DATING. Being ready for dating is never an age matter. Dating is something that teen should be well aware of. Being mentally and emotionally fit and stable are the common requirements to determine if a person is ready to join the crazy world of dating. Since we are dealing with teens here, dating would only be okay for those who are able to handle things maturely and of course, those with parents consent.
What do you mean by healthy dating relationship?
Healthy dating relationship, much like friendship, should be founded in the base of good communication, respect and honesty. However, unlike friendship, healthy dating relationship would include physical means of expressing care such as hugging and kissing (reminder, never over do any of the stated physical means of expressing care). In addition, contrary to some people would say, healthy dating relationship would include being away from that person some time. Being away would create a stronger feeling of longing and would develop maturity for both sides. Also, being able to balance the time being spent for your special someone/crush and your family would mean you are having a good dating relationship.
Why do I have to date someone at my age?
Dating someone at your age or close to your age would ensure an equal maturity. Having the almost the same age would mean that both of you can understand one another very well. Also, this is to ensure and stay away from the possibility that dating someone older would only bring about physical relationship rather than the desirable emotional relationship.
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By Victor C.
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.
Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who struggled with girls, that’s me.
I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and then I’d write down my response.
But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot. In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?
Here we go:
Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!
My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning you open a world of possibilities.
Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh… It’s the way to true love…”
That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately.
I’ve done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.
Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.
That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends, she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation. Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.
If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make it more difficult for you to approach her.
My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest, tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes. Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as before.
Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.
But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the door to your success with any girl.
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Flirting comes naturally to some women, or at least that’s what it seems like, but if you’re not one of them, you may need a little help. Flirting with a man is a simple thing really, and you can do it, just by following a few rules.
1. Be confident. A man is intrigued by a woman with confidence. If you’re comfortable in your own skin, regardless of the spot or situation you find yourself in, your confidence will shine and a man is bound to notice.
2. Dress for the occasion. Looking good is attractive to a man, but it will also make you feel good. Wearing clothes that make you feel attractive or flirty makes you feel good about you. It’s easier to be flirty when you feel good about your own appearance, and knowing you’ve caught a man’s eye with your appearance is a confidence booster as well.
3. Be Yourself. You can be flirty and still be you. Trying to be something other than what you are is bound to make you feel uncertain or uncomfortable. Concentrating too hard on keeping up a charade sucks the fun out of flirty, and it’s usually obvious to a man if you’re pretending or trying too hard.
4. Project a feeling of approachability. A woman who seems interested in her surroundings is more approachable than one who only looks at the friends she’s with. If you never survey the room or make eye contact with a man, he’ll feel like he can’t or shouldn’t approach you.
5. Be inviting. Smile and make eye contact. Let him know you noticed him. Look back at him periodically over time, reassuring him that you really are interested in him. Once you feel confident he’s interest in you, wave to him, or beckon him over to you.
6. Be interested. Really listen to him when he talk, and respond to what he says. Pay attention to him, and not the other action taking place in the room. Ask him questions, particularly about himself. Moving from small talk to topics that are more personal will let him know you want to know about him, and that you’re really interested.
7. Touch him. During your conversation, lightly touch his arm or hand. Put your hand on his knee briefly. These small touches let a man know you are interested. A man responds to touch by feeling more comfortable.
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By Jake Rancen
You broke up with your ex, and now you are going out on casual dates with him or her. You want to see what the state of your relationship actually is. You are using body language flirting, as we all do sometimes, to get his attention. Are you going to be just friends? That is an admirable first step, no matter what develops later. In fact, it is an essential step. The best relationships are those where the man and the woman are each other’s best friend. After the separation, you both probably went through a stage of panic and desperation. You felt devastated and disconnected, as if your world was jerked out from under you. This is normal. Take the time to get over these feelings. Find your sense of equilibrium again before dating your ex. No one can think clearly when they are being overwhelmed by these kinds of negative thoughts. You must appear confident, mature and poised, or you will have little hope of getting your ex back.
When you are with your ex, watch closely to see if the spark is still there between you. Spark is just another way of saying body language flirting. And what exactly is that? It is a whole collection of small things. For example, be neat and well-groomed at all times. Arrive for the date with a flower for her, such as a rose. Yes, body language flirting also means romance. No, it is not dead, absolutely not. Hold the door for her, and stand up when she leaves the table. Girls, look dreamily into his eyes when he speaks. Guys, make frequent eye contact, and hold it for as long as it seems comfortable. While sitting at the restaurant table, lean towards him when he speaks. This shows him that you hear him, and are interested in what he is saying.
And the big one, touching. Touch your ex lightly when appropriate during the conversation, perhaps to make a point. Physical contact is very powerful. It says, I want to connect with you, I think you are desirable and special. Pay close attention to her reaction to this contact. Does she welcome it and reply in kind? Or does she pull back in surprise, or not react at all? This will tell you a lot about the state of her feelings for you. Do not go overboard, or try too hard. Romance is a feeling, it is something that builds and then just happens to two people, if they are ready for it. You surely know your ex quite well at this point. This gives you a big advantage over couples who are out on their very first date. Use this knowledge wisely. Think what he or she likes, what gets their attention, then do it.
After a particularly pleasant date, send her a small card with a warm, handwritten note saying how much you enjoyed her company. This is more personal and long-lasting than an email or text message. It also has more impact. Do not hesitate to be a little old-fashioned. Those traditional methods from yesteryear still work, even in our modern age. Be alert as well to the opposite of body language flirting. Is he constantly talking on his cellphone during your date? How rude. Does he go to the washroom more than once or twice? Is he unable to concentrate on you, and what you are saying? Does he cut the date short for some reason, and claim he has to run off?
These are all bad signs that he is not too interested in you, at least not right now. Do not fight it. If the chemistry is not there, let it go. You will need to rethink your position, and decide if it is really worth the effort to go on. But do not give up too quickly. Maybe he was just having a bad day, as we all do sometimes. Give him another chance. Body language flirting can be very powerful, and can reveal a lot concerning our true inner feelings about someone. This is because it is often unconscious. We do not even realize what we are doing sometimes, or what signals we are sending. So pay close attention to both your ex’s non-verbal behavior, and your own.
©Jake Rancen is a long time Web author, who has dated many women. He wants to help you understand those non-verbal cues, and fix your relationship. You may need a more detailed guide to body language flirting and getting back with your ex. OK, here it is, a tested proven plan to put the pieces of your lives back together.
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