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By Mark Shih

The Asian male and his dating situation. What is it like? Well, if you’re reading this article I’m fairly sure that yours is non-existent. Polls have shown that Asian men aren’t the first choice for most western females.

Dating websites that can match you with your soul mate can work, until the female sees that you’re Asian. Racist? Maybe. Just scouring the web you’ll come across a wide variety of opinions on this subject. You’ll commonly hear the same things over and over again:

- “It’s because Hollywood films show negative stereotypes of Asians”

- “Asian men seem too shy”

- “We’re educated and successful – why wouldn’t women be interested in us?”

So what is an Asian guy suppose to do? As an Asian man, who at one point was dateless for YEARS… yea, not weeks or months, but YEARS, and who now has a busy social life, let me offer you some of the best advice out there for Asian men:

Admit you need to change: This is where it all starts. Just admit it. You have a dead social life? Well, the only person to blame is yourself. Your current way of thinking hasn’t been getting you anywhere with your dating life, so make a move today.

Stop with the negativity: You want to complain about negative stereotypes in the media? Join a political group. You want to meet more women? Stop complaining about everything. There are a lot “keyboard jockeys” on the Internet who just projects a whining, hide behind the monitor, wimp. These crybabies are a bad influence for any of you guys trying to find themselves and who are AFRAID of women. Stop with the negative and move forward towards the positive.

Find Mentors: Surrounding yourself with individuals who are similar to you and who have been through your world is a priceless source of motivation and knowledge. Because there are too many negative non-believers out there, sometimes the best wake-up call is seeing things for yourself. For those of you looking for the magic pill. This is it.

This powerful foundation will start you off in the right direction.

I’ve been in your shoes and I know that most of you need a constant reminder or a drill sergeant to steer you right. Change is hard and can take a couple of years to finally “get it.”

Don’t let your Asian background be a hindrance. I’ve come to the point where I think that it is an advantage for me to be Asian in the dating world. That’s how I “see it.” There is a small percentage of Asian men who have had no problems with their dating lives. Whether if it’s with a Latina, Caucasian or black woman, these guys just get it.

Fortunately, everything can be learned. But you need to make your first step to begin your journey. Stop hanging out at the Boba Café and take down your online dating profiles. Because this isn’t about women, it’s about building a lifestyle.

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