By Victor C.
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.
Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who struggled with girls, that’s me.
I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and then I’d write down my response.
But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot. In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?
Here we go:
Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!
My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning you open a world of possibilities.
Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh… It’s the way to true love…”
That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately.
I’ve done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.
Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.
That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends, she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation. Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.
If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make it more difficult for you to approach her.
My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest, tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes. Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as before.
Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.
But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the door to your success with any girl.
Dating is one of the most difficult actions for many people because everybody is or has been rejected at least once. Of course, that is not a nice experience but with these Dating Services you can find great opportunities to find the perfect match for you.
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By Victor C.
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.
Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who struggled with girls, that’s me.
I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and then I’d write down my response.
But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot. In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?
Here we go:
Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!
My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning you open a world of possibilities.
Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh… It’s the way to true love…”
That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately.
I’ve done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.
Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.
That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends, she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation. Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.
If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make it more difficult for you to approach her.
My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest, tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes. Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as before.
Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.
But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the door to your success with any girl.
Dating is one of the most difficult actions for many people because everybody is or has been rejected at least once. Of course, that is not a nice experience but with these Dating Services you can find great opportunities to find the perfect match for you.
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By , April 30th, 2010,in Bad Flirt »Tags: date, Dating, Flirt, flirting, how do you flirt, how to flirt with girls, pickup girls, women | 1 Comment »
By Victor C.
If there is one thing that every man (or even woman) has been interested in since they are kids, this is the knowing of how to flirt.
Do you remember that pretty girl in your classroom that you wanted to talk to but you didn’t know how to start? If there is one person who struggled with girls, that’s me.
I don’t know if you were so desperate that you even wrote down the lines you’d tell the girl. Well, I did. I remember that there was this girl I was in love with and I didn’t know what to say, so what I did was to write what I was going to say and imagine what would be her answer and then I’d write down my response.
But you must be asking: “Man, how do you flirt? I’m not interested in your situation but in mine”. Okay, maybe you are not in a situation as bad as mine was but, if you are having problems trying to approach a woman, I’ll tell you a couple of techniques that have helped me a lot. In fact, I can tell you that if I like a girl, I can make her feel interested in me and with a little time, if I want to, I could make her my girlfriend. I’m not bragging here and I’m not calling myself an expert but if I’ve been having 100% success rate with my flirting, I think I must know a thing or two, don’t you think?
Here we go:
Technique #1: Make Her Laugh!
My friend, if you find ways to make that girl laugh since the beginning you open a world of possibilities.
Have you seen the movie “Michael” with John Travolta? He is supposed to be an angel who comes down to Earth and fix problems. Well, he is trying to make a couple to realize that they are in love with each other. He is always trying to make jokes in he says in one part of the movie this:
“..You gotta learn to laugh… It’s the way to true love…”
That is so true. Just try it and you’ll get convinced immediately.
I’ve done it and believe me, it works wonders. I promise if you focus only in finding ways to make a girl laugh, you’ll have more potential girlfriends than you’ve ever dreamed of.
Technique #2: Don’t Show Too Much Interest.
That’s right. Women have that sixth sense that tells them when a man is just trying to approach them with sexual intentions. There’s noting bad with that, however if you start by approaching them ONLY to be friends, she will feel that way and will be more open to your conversation. Later, you can invite her out and everything starts from there.
If you show too much interest, another thing that might happen is that she could feel so proud that she might decide to have some fun and make it more difficult for you to approach her.
My recommendation is that at the beginning you show a lot of interest, tell her how wonderful her eyes are and don’t stop talking about her eyes for a few minutes, try to make her laugh talking about her eyes. Then, suddenly ignore her eyes, talk about anything else, don’t mention her eyes anymore. This way she will wonder what’s wrong with her eyes because minutes ago they were the most important thing in the world for you and all of a sudden, those wonderful eyes are not as beautiful as before.
Do you see my point? First, show a lot of interest, and then show indifference. This, my friends, is one of my best tricks.
But to start, I strongly recommend that do everything in your power to find ways to make her laugh. That alone will be the key that opens the door to your success with any girl.
Dating is one of the most difficult actions for many people because everybody is or has been rejected at least once. Of course, that is not a nice experience but with these Dating Services you can find great opportunities to find the perfect match for you.
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By , April 19th, 2010,in Bad Flirt »Tags: date, Dating, Flirt, flirting, how do you flirt, how to flirt with girls, pickup girls, women | 1 Comment »
By Guy Blews
I recently did a radio interview about flirting – is it a good thing or a bad thing? Before I did the interview I was ‘prepped’ by the producers who asked me my point of view and then decided I would be a good guest because I was giving a counter argument to the more commonly held beliefs of society.
And what was that argument? – well, to me, it was the logical argument, the argument that is realistic and the one that actually relates to the world we live in, not the world we wish existed. Flirting – is it a good thing or a bad thing? I don’t think it’s either, I think it is just a part of life, a part of life that a baby uses to be loved, a child uses to have friends, a man uses to attract a woman, a woman uses to her advantage, businessmen use to secure a contract and I used to be accepted for the radio show in the first place.
Of course, as with all things, there are consequences to flirting. If you flirt for the ‘right’ reasons and you get what you want in a reciprocal way, then that’s better than flirting to gain an advantage at someone else’s expense. If you flirt, you suggest, if you suggest, you make a form of contract and that contract is then a deal waiting to happen – if you flirt and close the deal, fine, but if you flirt and then don’t close the deal whilst walking away with the prize, then that will not endear you to your fellow man, or woman.
Having said this, it is important that we, as adults, learn to observe flirtation from the position we are holding. For example, if a male boss is being flirted with by a female employee, then he needs to be aware that she might be flirting to gain a promotion or a pay raise, or worse, evidence for a lawsuit. If an employee is being flirted with by an employer, then the employee should be aware that the employer is using their position of power to procure a favorable situation for themselves by virtue of the fact that they are the boss – in both instances, each party should be aware of the reasons for the flirting and the consequences of any actions they might take – flirting is just that, flirting, there are no promises, just suggestions, so if you are the victim of a ’scam’ due to flirting, then you have only yourself to blame – perhaps you should have seen the overall picture, been a little more honest rather than seeing only what you wanted by manipulating the situation to what you wished would be the outcome; or better still, you should have come out with the truth and waited for an honest answer.
Whether it is good or bad is not really the point. Flirting is part of human nature, it has been used by countless generations to further careers, loves and lives; as an observer one would hope that flirting was done with at least some honesty, but the problem with flirting is that it is not direct enough to be honest in the first place, (it is, by its very nature, always skirting around the issue) and so it requires each party to carefully analyze the overall picture to then see the truth behind the actions.
Flirting raises the stakes, heightens the tension, makes the game more enjoyable, creates suspense and involves some mystery – all of these work for the better if they are honestly intended; but only if they are honestly intended.
Guy Blews
Guy Blews is the author of ‘Marriage & How To Avoid It’ and the instigator of Realistic Relationships. He has a blog at http://www.RealisticRelationships.com where he flirts with the idea that there is another way to look at life, where the ‘miseducation’ is discarded in favor of truth, where the fantasy is replaced by reality. His latest book is entitled ‘Realistic Relationships’ and is available at his website.
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By , April 12th, 2010,in Bad Flirt »Tags: Dating, flirting, games, life, love, marriage, me, men, money, play, realistic relationships, truth, women, work | 1 Comment »
By Ahmet Oz
Before we get to the flirt tips that will give you an advantage over other guys in the dating scene, let’s discuss a certain dating issue that plagues most men. I call it the “clueless phase”. All guys go through a certain phase where they’re more than a bit confused about a girl’s intentions.
You may still be in this phase if you ask the following questions on a regular basis… Is she playing hard to get or is she giving me the cold shoulder? Does she like me or is she just being polite?
Usually, it’s difficult to guess what exactly a girl is thinking. Most guys just keep on flirting without considering the things she’s telling them without saying anything. What do I mean by that? Read on to learn some crucial flirt tips that involve reading a girl’s body language.
Flirt Tips for Reading a Woman’s Body Language
1. Move in When She Acts Coy
You know a girl’s acting coy if she looks at you frequently while she’s talking to other people. She averts her gaze after you’ve caught her staring. If you see this, you can flirt for a few minutes using eye-play. Wink at her. Smile widely and move closer.
2. Know When She’s Preening
One of the best flirt tips you can use is “preen perception”. This involves looking for signs that a woman is trying to attract you using her physique. She will tilt her head so her hair sways slightly. Her hips sway when she walks and she stands a bit straighter to emphasize her breasts.
When a girl shows flirting body language, you should take advantage by intensifying your own flirting and asking for her number at once. Apply these flirt tips the next time you’re in a party or a nightclub and see what happens.
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By , April 9th, 2010,in Flirting Body Language »Tags: dating tips, flirt tips, flirting with women, girl, How To Flirt, women | No Comments »